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Nia and Rosette “clicked” on interests like photography.

One of the many hopes of every parent is for their child to have the opportunity to explore new horizons with someone who could be a positive influence in their life. That was exactly why in 2007 Suzan, a single Mom with a disability, sought the assistance of Big Brothers Big Sisters for her daughter, Nia. “Because of my disability, I can’t do as much for my daughter as I would like. The program allows Nia to get out of her neighborhood and see and experience new things. Big Brothers Big Sisters is a positive force.”

Enter Rosette, a high school teacher in Baltimore County, who describes “just clicking” on her first meeting with Little Sister Nia. In fact, they clicked on many levels including a practical one as Rosette brought a camera to their first meeting and they took pictures.

Rosette echoes Suzan’s hopes, “I want for Nia to be totally aware, and know there are so many opportunities available for her. I also want her to be a positive influence on her younger brothers who now also have Bigs.”

How does Nia feel about her Big Sister Rosette? She understands why her mom felt she needed a mentor and says, “Rosette helps expand my view of the world and what I can achieve. I now have different dreams and aspirations. I want to attend an out-of-state college and study psychology.”

Big Sister Rosette sees a great deal of herself in Nia whom she describes as, “diligent and family oriented.”

Both Rosette and Suzan credit Umecka, their Big Brothers Big Sisters Match Support Specialist, for helping them maintain open lines of communication. Rosette and Nia get together at least three times each month and engage in a variety of activities including attending movies and just enjoying some good girl talk.

Lanitra has made positive change in Dae’Asia’s attitude.

Monique first became aware of Big Brothers Big Sisters through her daughter Dae’Asia’s school. As a single mom, she wanted extra support and to provide her daughter with the individual attention she needs to thrive.

Big Brothers Big Sisters found the perfect Big Sister for Dae’Asia when she was matched with her three years ago. Lanitra, who works for a financial services firm, helps Dae’Asia talk through problems and challenges typically faced by the average 13-year-old including school issues and, of course, “boy” problems! Lanitra, however, is most interested in helping Dae’Asia with self-control and discipline issues that can overwhelm many teenage girls.

As a seventh grade student with two younger brothers, Dae’Asia has big goals which include being a fashion designer, or, what she describes as “stylist to the stars.” In fact, she has already taken fashion design classes and has designed clothes for Lanitra who fully supports Dae’Asia’s aspiration of going to New York City or Paris.

As an Army brat who was born in Germany and traveled internationally with her Dad, Lanitra developed an appreciation for different cultures and thinks it’s important to expose Dae’Asia to the history of their city, the culture of her surroundings, and to varied life experiences.

Her mom has seen positive changes in Dae’Asia’s attitude since meeting Big Sister Lanitra. “She is more positive and helpful at home, too,” observed Monique, “I love it!”